Within minutes I had five messages and as many ‘winks’. Many were looking for ‘dirty chat’ without ever intending to meet me.
Others were clearly looking for a one-off notch on the bedpost. Most didn’t reveal their jobs, some didn’t write anything at all while others were upfront – “Married and planning to stay that way.
“I’ve been married for four years but we’ve been together for 12. “The first time, it made me realise there is more out there, life doesn’t have to be miserable. We could be having the best holiday but she always finds something to worry about. She says the children are a chore but they’re not, they’re a joy. He heard about the site through a friend who he says used it to cheat on his wife a staggering 40 times. What struck me from both meetings and the many emails is that not one expressed any pangs of guilt.
Want to meet attractive woman for occasional afternoon fun.” There were a surprisingly high number of headshots.
A lot of the men were overweight, scruffy and unattractive, but some were handsome. Within 48 hours, I’d arranged to meet three different married men for afternoon coffee.