But the moment the guy stops doing that, most girls think he has stopped loving them and somewhere down the line, he may also stop showering attention." D'sa says if both of you want to be on the same page, you need to have an unspoken line of what amount of cash to splurge on each other. Don't hide past relationships If you've lived more, chances are, you might have stuff you may want to come clean about.
Says dating expert Ankit Anubhav, "When you're dating a younger girl, know that she's from a different generation. So, from the guy's perspective, the older one should give much more space and handle all the madness." Anubhav also feels that while young folks mostly look up to the older person, the latter shouldn't try and control them.
If the age difference between you and your girlfriend is more than five years, there are certain things men need to be aware of so that they can get the most out of a relationship, which is exhilarating, yet at times, demanding, and one that needs a bit more sensitivity and flair on your part as the older one in the relationship. Treat her like an equal You might feel, at times, the weight of the wisdom you've acquired through the years and want to take charge, but make sure you're not condescending.
Dating expert Ankit Anubhav says younger girls might be gullible, but they're not dumb, and treating them any different is a turn-off. Without that, you're just trying to take advantage of the situation and it may never come off well.
Says Abhijit Naik about his relationship with his fiancee, "We have a 10-year age gap and I went through a bad marriage in the past.
I was open about it from the time we started dating two years ago.
D'sa feels that a lot of times, people who are more assertive in the relationship keep pressing for things to be done at their preferred places. If on a Friday night, you go to a club meeting her friends, Saturday night could be a quiet lounge.