Three: Do not "friend" your date on Facebook before or after the initial meeting.
If you're not a good match (and dates are like new restaurants; about one in eight survive), you're both going to share that awkward moment of "Do I un-friend him or keep reading about his 'Why do I always meet losers? Four: Even though gay men love to label everyone, they despise being labeled.
Seven: If he insists on taking "important calls" several times during your date, don't automatically think he's blowing you off.
In today's complicated world, he might be calling work, his sitter, or his ex-wife to see if she can pick up the kids.
Six: Unless he can juggle or tap dance in bed, "versatile bottom" means only one thing, so be prepared to take charge if things go well.
Nowadays, it's common sense to remember that, if you sleep with someone who's in a 12-Step program, you are also sleeping with everyone in his Home Group.Be prepared to be judged by all the members of the orgy.Chill out, and use the time to call your sponsor for encouragement.Eight: In the old days, it was common, and common sense, to say that, if you sleep with someone, you are also sleeping with everyone he's slept with.
Nine: If you've met the guy online and have never met in person, and if his entire chat so far has been about how amazingly hot you are and how amazingly much he's into you and how he's quite certain you're the guy for him, he will hate you within 20 minutes of your date and you will never hear from him again.
If you request an explanation, he will call you a stalker and block you from any social media sites you might share.