Whoever messaged you already paid for initiating the session, so simply click Cancel. In the top-left corner of the screen, you can see your user ID.
It’s a number, and because Ashley Madison simply counts that number up with every new member, you can tell how many members there were when you signed up.
You will get an email when your sweetheart logs in.
That alone may not be so exciting, although it’s an easy way to confirm Ashley Madison’s membership claims.
:-)), so to find it, you need to hover your mouse over one of the links under the picture and then look at the link target on the bottom of your browser, like so: Since all users are numbered sequentially, you can now roughly tell when that guy signed up!Just check what date range his user ID falls into: That gives you an idea if he’s been around the block a few times or if he’s really “just trying out the site” as he may be claiming.