Vulnerable narcissists are the emotional and financial vampires who will suck your funds dry and constantly demand attention and comfort for their many problems.
They are less likely to be materially successful, and may be dependent on others for their survival.In fact, they may seem to take a kind of perverse pride in their failures and hard luck.An interesting article in Psychology Today explains the difference between grandiose (invulnerable) narcissists, and “vulnerable” narcissists.Either can be somatic or cerebral, and either can also be malignant or non-malignant. You won’t see them show emotions other than rage or pride, and if they are ever sad or fearful, you will never see that side of them.
They will wear down their sources of supply with their constant demands and mind games.
Both types of narcissists will shamelessly manipulate others to have their way.