But you have to build attraction with him while he is still with her.First of all, you have to accept the fact that your ex is with someone new.Scaring/harassing the new girl away is not going to help.So, your ex is dating someone new now shortly after your breakup. Just imagining the guy you are still in love with kissing a new girl makes you go crazy. Believe me, there is still of getting your ex back.And if you want your ex boyfriend back even though he is already seeing another girl, you need to start looking at things from a new perspective.
Don’t even attempt to to harass them or find out what they are doing with your ex recently. Okay, I understand that you just want your ex boyfriend to come back to you as soon as possible. As you are reading this blog post, I assume that you want a long and loving relationship with him. Don’t worry about him falling in love with the new girl. This new girl is just a rebound and almost all of the rebound relationships end up in a breakup.
And if you want that instead of just wanting him back for a short while, you should make him realize that you are the best option for him. The first thing you need to do is leave your ex boyfriend alone. I know it’s a little hard to accept considering the small chance that this one does work out. And the reward for taking this small risk is getting your ex-boyfriend back for good.
He just went from one short term relationship to another.
In this case, I’d generally recommend you to move on from this short term relationship. Do you think if you and your ex got back together, you two will be able build a relationship with strong foundation? Did he decide to just leave because he was not satisfied or he discussed his problems with you?
Exception: There is one exception to this case and that is if you and your ex boyfriend had been dating for a very short time (like a month or two weeks).In this case, since your relationship wasn’t very strong in the first place, he is not technically with a rebound girl.