And yet, he insists on communicating with you, under the pretext that he finds you interesting or that he wants to help you. In fact, they will often prey on emotionally needy children and young adolescents. Another sign that your online friend might be a pervert is that he likes to ask you about what you’re wearing. An online pervert wants to open your mind to the possibility of sex, so sending you sexually suggestive or even graphic images or videos is just part of his game. However, for individuals who have never met, these questions are downright inappropriate and if he is an adult asking a child, it is wrong and unacceptable. He will be focusing on the sexual parts, of course and ask you what you think or if you’ve ever seen or read pornographic or erotic material. He talks to you about sex and asks what you feel about it.Although they might try to win your confidence by discussing the latest trends, music and fashion, they will gradually shift to other topics, especially those that have something to do with your feelings. He will then proceed by insisting that you describe your clothes in detail, particularly your underwear. He is hoping that if you see the pictures, you will find them interesting and be titillated by them. If your online friend is a pervert, he will start referring to his or your body parts. Some online perverts cut to the chase, so to speak, preferring to approach their intended victims sexually the first time around.
Another sign that your online friend is a pervert is that he will venture the possibility of you having sexual relations with him.
He doesn’t care how old you are or where you live because he’s more than willing to work out a compromise or solution. As part of the ‘grooming’ technique that online perverts use, your friend might try to win your favor by sending you gifts and court you by writing you notes professing his love.