I think you should explain to him how you feel and that you need some time away from him.
If your ex truly wants to be friends with you, then he should respect your choice and wait until you're ready.
Beckie Hocking, Woodbridge, Virginia I think you should try to be friends. So, since you're going to be together in heaven, shouldn't you try to live peaceably down here?Chris Mann, Tahuya, Washington You may just need time away from each other. He will understand if he really wants to be friends. Holly Williams, Raleigh, North Carolina Right now you need this time away from him to heal.