The Whisper app lets people tell secrets anonymously — and many women who are dating or married to truckers are using it to tell the truth about how trucking really affects their relationship.
I was in a relationship for three months with a man I met online. The first week we were dating, I went back to my dating account so I could delete it and saw that he was still online.
We didn't talk for about five months, but then got back together.
We both said we hadn't been with anyone else during the time we were separated.
(That wasn't true, obviously.) Anyway, I guess I developed a trust issue after that, and our relationship ended one night when I texted him and he took hours to reply (I hear stories about truck drivers).
When he finally replied, he said he had been with his friends. He told me I was trying to control him and that I was too jealous.
I know I can be insecure because of past experiences ... I feel guilty but at the same time so disappointed. I won't beg, but it hurts so much that he did't try to prove that he's trustworthy, and instead decided that we have no future.Did I mess up or am I just blaming myself because I don't want to accept the fact that he doesn't care enough?