So, what is important for a white American male to remember if interested in approaching a typical black American female in the USA?
Here are a few things: There are a decent number of non-black men out there who are interested in black women primarily as a means to an end.
When approaching these women, it is important that you distance yourself from this as much as you can.
They’re usually not going to be comfortable with the idea of being an experiment for a random horny guy.
By building strong friendships with people of multiple backgrounds and winning social proof among multiple groups, you can improve your chances of gaining romantic interest from a diverse group of women.
If a black woman can see that you’re cool to her peers and with other minorities, she may be more open to you romantically and less prone to conclude that you’re just knocking the “black girl thing” off of your “to-do list”. In a previous article discussing ways in which black men can broaden their romantic options, I noted that black males with diverse friend groups and social proof were far more likely to find non-black female suitors on a consistent basis than others.
Interest in black female and white male pairings does exist in the US.
ABC’s hit show Scandal has shown that there is an openness to white male/black female partnerships among black women, and more than a few relatively high-value white men have shown a willingness to approach and date black women.A similar truth applies with regard to black women.