Another possible redflag is that he rarely talks about our future, he says he can see us moving in together soon but that's about it.But given that he isn't even sure he loves me, that's probably understandable.After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. We met online and clicked immediately, and soon decided to be exclusive.Hello everyone, I thank you in advance for the thoughtful reply you would leave. I'm in my mid-20s and he's in his mid-30s, despite the big age gap, we get along great, respect each other's opinions, make sacrifices for each other, try hard to make each other happy, and just overall enjoy each other's company to the fullest. When we are physically together, I can honestly say that I am fulfilled and happy.He would only say it when he is absolutely certain that he is in love, and his definition of love is that he has to prioritize the other person's happiness above his own.
For instance, he hasn't said the L word yet (and I'm confused, because from time to time, I do get the vibe that he does love me from the way he looks at me and the way he takes cares of me). I asked him while we were on vacation around 3 month into our relationship if he loved me, he said he thought so.Then I asked why he hasn't said the L word yet, he said he isn't ready and that saying the L word is a huge deal for him.