Moments from friends and family of “Oh, I know someone from [insert country or race America, Germany, Australia, Mexico etc.]” because like your significant other knows everyone from their country and race.21. Disapproving words or stares from people who don’t believe in interracial or cross-cultural dating.23.Wondering what would have happened if you did live in the same city.43.No pressure because it’s just a traveler fling, and you know it wouldn’t work out in real life anyways.44. Not resenting someone who wasn’t ready to make those sacrifices.48. The novelty of dating someone of a different country or race.50.Assumptions that either person has a “fetish” for a certain race or culture.45. Understanding that love sees no color, feels no borders, hears no accent, and tastes nothing but sweet sweet kisses of trust, friendship, and passion.
References about how beautiful your hypothetical mixed babies would be.2. Knowing you’ll never be mistaken as brother and sister…We totally could have been adopted though.4. Long nights of discussing what you love about your culture.26.Encounters with family members or friends you can’t speak with.5. Discussions about why the US Education, Health, War, and Justice system sucks (if one is American).27. Spending more time with his/her family or friends because of the distance to yours.32. Knowing they can take you places only natives/locals know of.34.Saying something in your native language and feeling sexy.6. Using “culture” as a crutch to letting them get away with behavior you don’t agree with.10. Trying to learn basic phrases in their language.14. Discussions about the US failure to “get” soccer (if one is American).28. Celebrating another country or race’s traditions.30. Having a personal translator in at least one language.35. Actually moving to a new city or country, doing long-distance, or breaking up.39. Pioneering the new world by statically going against that in 2015 most people still don’t date outside of their race.41.Hearing something in their native language and it being sexy.7. Being referred to as “The American” “The German” “The Aussie” instead of as “the xyz.”11. Wondering if you’ll make it past this weekend, these few months, or lifetime together.36. TOO MUCH PRESSURE TOO SOONBecause your decision to move or do long-distance shouldn’t have to be made until you know each other well enough to make that decision, but hey, you don’t have a choice when flights are booked.42.
Your significant other not getting references or jokes to childhood experiences, TV shows, pop artists, etc. Long nights of discussing what you hate about your culture.25.
Questions about where you would raise your unborn children.24.