here comes a time in everybody’s dating career when your dance card suddenly becomes fuller than you know what to do with.One day, you’re swiping sullenly through Tinder bemoaning the lack of attractive, normal-seeming men that are possibly as tall as they say they are in their profiles, and the next, you find yourself drafting a spreadsheet to keep track of the nine dates that you have somehow booked for one week. Like all things in life, your dating life will ebb and flow.With dating, this rule sadly doesn’t always hold true.“How could it be that the universe is handing me such a Herculean task? This embarrassment of riches is your prize for enduring countless shitty dates and rebuffing the advances of grody bros in I-banker loafers who are too drunk to see straight while you’re waiting in line for the bathroom.If you ever, ever feel bad about dating more than one person, remind yourself that if you were a dude, this behavior would be second nature. The golden rule: Make sure they don’t know each other.
This is unfamiliar territory, and it is perfectly natural to have questions. Here are a few tips and tricks for juggling two people — or more! I had a friend in college who happened to be dating two people at the same time for over a year.The deception in and of itself was bad enough, as she was forging deep connections with both, but the worst part?When — or if — do I have to tell the people about each other?There is an enduring instinct to treat people the way that we’d like to be treated.
Years of Sahara-like drought will give way to a summer full of eternal possibility, teeming with tapas dates and dinner dates and beach dates galore.One day, you’ll wake up in a daze, and find yourself with a bucket full of eligible, decent, good dudes, all clamoring for your attention.