Man C: Nothing is really different about sleeping with older women. In many cases, they've already had their families, so neither of us are dependent on the other. Man A: There wasn't anything I didn't like about it. Overall, she is definitely in control of the situation, which I find really sexy.They don't really know what they want and are still finding their way. With girls my own age, we only had sex a few times a month. My current girlfriend pursued me on social media and then we started dating. My last girlfriend and I would sit down and listen to all my favorite music, and it was a real bonding experience I'd never had before. Man B: I've never gotten anything more than a "huh."Man C: Sometimes people think I'm her son, but when that happens we just look at each other and laugh. " They'll also mention how it's been acceptable for older men to date much younger women and then question why it's not more socially acceptable for women to date younger guys.
I just follow directions given, which puts much less pressure on me. Society isn't as used to seeing it as we'd like them to be. Man B: Older women know what they want, so I don't have to guess. Man A: I'm single now, but in my last relationship, I was 24 and she was 40. Man C: There's less drama with older women and they are much less likely to be dependent on you. Man A: The social stigma can be tough, but I have brushed it aside. Man A: Some friends thought it was cool in some ways, but other friends didn't. They aren't objects, but in my experience, they certainly aim to please overall. You don't expect someone who is so much older to have so much in common with you or the desire to connect with you the way some older women do. And with 15 years more experience, they're more interesting to talk to. Man A: Older women are more open to letting you try new things.
I only had one friend with benefits after that who was six years older then me. Since then I've always looked for older women above all else. Now I'm 31, and I have more experience sexually and a desire to satisfy my partner in every way I can. I hooked up with a 30-year-old when I was 18, so I was always into it per se, but I didn't really start dating older women until I was 20 and I met this pretty hot college teacher online.