(I guess there are more non-Jews out there.) Are they wrong for treating me this way, or am I? Hillary in Atlanta Our answer begins with a question you must answer. This has nothing to do with how religiously observant you are; it has to do with how you define yourself in terms of your history, your culture, your spiritual beliefs and your relationship to God.We see that you feel a connection to Judaism from the fact that you clicked onto this website!If you do, then you should date only Jews, so that you will marry a Jew.
So spend some time thinking about how important your Jewish identity is to you.
Do you envision a life in which you are conscious of your Judaism, maintain some Jewish tradition, and/or raise your children as Jews?