) is that women no longer eye-up these sad old gits in bars. Of those surveyed, 54% said men not being chatted up on nights out was the clearest sign they no longer existed, sexually. Sexual attractiveness has never just been about looks — and looks do not go to poop at 39! that particular person is fun and playful, then the odds are low he’ll find that combination in a younger woman.Bonus: If we can do this we’ll be a lot happier with or without a man! So, going by what we’ve learnt from testimonials I’ve gathered out there in the real world, if we want to increase our odds of finding, attracting and keeping a man, we may consider taking a more fun and playful approach to life.
I know plenty of “older” women who are fun and playful and spontaneous and kick-ass awesome—single and otherwise.
Of course, we’re still going to have our kids and our schedules and our careers and our past heart-breaks, because If we embrace the struggles that have given us the very life experience a mature man (or anyone) finds appealing, we give ourselves permission to reconnect with our own childlike spirit.
Sure, men over 40, 50 and 60 also have unattractive qualities that often get generalized (for good reason!
In fact, most men who are looking for a long term, committed relationship do want a woman with similar life experience, which often actually means a lady closer to their own age.
We’ve already got the life experience, so by lightening up a bit we can actually rocket past those young, hot bods and raise our odds of attracting a good man.The other "signs" are greying hair, double chins, thinning hair and having bad teeth. It’s about attitude and confidence and intelligence and wit and charm and, subconsciously, fertility.