For him, that means avoiding those question marks at all costs.
For you, well…an HIV-positive man who is in treatment and is determined by his physician to have an undetectable viral load has reduced your risk to the smallest statistical possibility.
We curb dating wildly inappropriate people and become more discerning when choosing our Friday night dinner guests. Protection from possible disease, including HIV, should be on the mind of every single gay man.
The bad news: With every potential love comes a series of risks. However, the risk of dating someone who is HIV-positive is severely misunderstood.
Of course, condom use should be nonnegotiable in any dating scenario. So often you will hear a gay man prematurely divulge his negative HIV status as soon as one of his friends brings up the topic.
But a man who is up front with his status should put you at ease. Be wary—he may just be the guy who convinces himself he is negative just because he doesn’t know whether he is positive.
reruns not to become disillusioned with the prospect of finding love.
Unfortunately, Tylenol doesn’t cure heartache, and a breakup can seem to break you altogether.