i have seen lots of married women sex with another man... i dont khow are they unable to satisfy their wife... but i a very much upset because when i will get married what will happen?? Don't make the mistake of thinking that women are alone in this. Either partner in a marriage expects instant satisfaction and happiness when they finally get married only to find out that marriage is no guarantee of happiness. I think one of the primary reasons it happens so often these days is a lack of maturity.From a very young age, we are told from our society, friends and the media that we must fall in love and have a partner to be happy.Think about how many movies there are that show two people who find each other fall in love and living a perfect and happy life thereafter.At the heart of it, relationships can only give us three things. Until you learn that you have to really love yourself and the world or life around you, it's impossible to find love from a mate.Join free online chat rooms and chat with friends, meet new people and more.Choose from hundreds of online chat rooms, Joining a online chat rooms on in is simple and fun. If you're ready to start chat, you can join a Chat Rooms in just seconds.Think about advertising, music and television, they all tell us that we must find our perfect "one" to make us happy.
They fell for the lie and after a chain of failed relationships, they feel cheated because their guy or gal didn't make them happy.
Cheating only happens when someone isn't getting that 'happiness' they are promised.
So from the very beginning, folks are on a road to failure in most relationships. They can endure the unhappy relationship and at least feel good in knowing they gave it their all and was faithful, or they end the relationship in order to find someone new, or, they are too fearful or immature to do that so they just cheat to find that 'perfect one'.
But in any of those decisions, if that person doesn't realize that finding someone doesn't guarantee happiness, no matter how great they are, they will always be unfulfilled.
Their friends have someone and are told that they must have someone too in order to be happy. Everyone has problems and bad things in their lives, that's just a part of living. To make that leap and deny all the pressures to the contrary takes a level of maturity that a lot of folks just don't have.
But the truth is that happiness comes from your own heart and attitude towards life. It's sad because that's why there are so many empty lives out their now.