Are you always with someone that you have to “fix” or take care of?Do you tend to choose men who are romantic and exciting but with no history of commitment? We offer online counseling by phone and by email and would be glad to work with you in more detail about your specific situation. Can you give me some ideas about how to find someone that I can trust and when I can decide that it is okay to let down my guard.Congratulations to you, Tara, for recognizing that you want to go more slowly and be more careful before beginning a new romantic relationship. The guys that I go out with either end up leaving me or have some problems like pot, alcohol or dating several at the same time but not letting me in on this.
Have you chosen the same kind of person only with a little different look?Fixed or not, it’s frustrating, and unless you’re a crack Marine Corps sniper, you will often go home empty handed. As a “veteran” of over 60 internet dates and nearly 10 years of negotiating my way through the many, many websites out there, I know firsthand how arduous and frustrating it can be.I’ve made countless errors, put up stupid pictures, sent even stupider messages and had “sure things” vanish into thin air.It’s this experience, however, that has enabled me to figure out what the hell I am doing, and I wish to share some of my tips and tricks with you.
Online dating is the greatest invention the world has ever seen. You browse profiles, find someone you like and start a conversation.
With any luck they will like you back and you can look forward to a new life of love, romance and passionate lovemaking. In reality, it’s like that game at the fun fair where you have to shoot a row of ducks but nobody ever seems to be able to hit the target.