Did you meet your one true love already and didn’t recognize that person as your true love?Maybe, you thought someone was your one true love until the really nasty divorce and now you’re realizing that your soulmate is someone who gets you someone who doesn’t play World of Warcraft all day and picks up after themselves every once in a while.I can’t believe how many times I’ve heard that my soulmate is just someone who “gets” me.
INFPs everywhere are protesting that we aren’t that shallow.INFPs seem offended by the notion that there’s a minimum attractiveness quotient before someone can really understand why some days we’re on the verge of tears for no apparent reason. If you believe there’s only one soulmate, that one person who’s just perfect for you, given that there’s 6 billion people, is statistically in a different country and most likely married or dead depending on the age.That’s a depressing thought so INFPs with Soulmate Syndrome have an additional condition called Destiny Delerium, the belief that the universe will make sure that their paths will cross.Can they be your soulmate if they have horrendous hygiene and you find them disgusting? Perhaps that urine smelling homeless man that’s old enough to be your father that you pass every day on the way to work is the one person in the whole world who understands you and will accept you completely.
You’re never going to find out by giving him the occasional dollar bill as you walk by.
Infidelity has very little to do with love and more to do with one partner looking outside the relationship to find whatever they think is missing in the current relationship.