But here’s the thing with dirty talk: if you’re not feeling totally comfortable with it, it can be embarrassing, awkward and terrifying… I mean, sure, moaning and groaning can get the point across, but with sex, it’s easy to get lost in the moment and tune out those noises. After a few times of you saying “yes” when something feels good, your partner should realize that when you’re not saying “yes,” that means you’re not into it.
I should keep doing that.” And then everybody wins! So we need another taboo to bust – but what’s left? “In the UK, the discussion focuses on products (toys) and performance/aspirational messages around spicing up your sex life.