I have dated other men (who knew nothing of him) and gave birth to a child (not his), so it’s not like he’s the only man I see.
My problem is our conversations are intoxicating, and our kisses, touches and lovemaking are like no other. Or do you think what others don’t know won’t hurt them?
Dear Can’t Stop: The problem with the rationale “what others don’t know won’t hurt them” is that, at some point, the truth usually comes out.
And when it does, there are usually plenty of hurt feelings.
Frankly, I’m surprised your lover has been able to keep you under wraps for 30 years without the two of you being spotted somewhere.
I asked him out knowing he was married, thus safe from expecting a commitment.
I don’t think either of us expected our so-called relationship to last this long.