Instead, these people are taking to Tinder, or creating their own websites, looking for love and long-term relationships.
New services are popping up that specifically cater to this older market, such as Stitch, an app founded by Australian Andrew Dowling that targets those over 60.
Everyone likes the outdoors, laughing, travelling, a glass of wine with their friends.
They're all looking for someone kind, down-to-earth, intelligent, with a good sense of humour.
It's no longer a talking point if you meet The One in cyberspace.
Online dating technology is evolving, fuelled by sexed-up 20-somethings furiously swiping left.