Ask him if this is the area he lives in, comment on his accent, see if this leads to where he comes from.When you feel you have a good rapport with him say that you don’t really know any good places around the area, and comment that you really need a tour guide.But – The longer you keep conversation flowing the greater the chance he will feel comfortable enough to ask for a date.Try and make the exchange increasingly more personal.I became passionate about starting a company that offers dating advice for women from men to fight this problem. What you are going to do for the next week is take every opportunity to talk to the opposite sex.Every time you are interested in someone you see you are going to say this; “Hi, you don’t know where there’s a coffee shop around here that isn’t Starbucks?” Before he answers say “You don’t work for Starbucks do you?” When he says no (which I’m guessing will happen most of the time) say “You just gave me a face that made me think you were offended.” The truth is most men don’t have the confidence or skill to turn the opportunity in to a request for your phone number.
Yet with most of our friends there are two things you should know about their relationships: a. Their relationship isn’t as good as it looks As a result, these friends often give us terrible advice. Women will tell you never to approach men and they are right in principle but low on imagination.
It is difficult for women to lead interactions; women don’t like it and neither do men.