Becoming an incongruent needy betaboy who has to plan date 2 then and there will chase her away despite any initial feelings of bonding. In order to convert (if possible), you need to follow the natural, gradual progression of getting to know each other.Because it’s context dependent (Did you randomly pick her up on the street? Have you been friends for a while but never went out 1-on-1?Sometimes guys struggle, and subsequently harbor feelings of emptiness attempting to convert ONS (One Night Stands) and SNLs (Same Night Lays) into FWBs (Friends With Benefits, fuck buddies, or girlfriends). No matter how well you play your cards, some girls just want to shag and forget.There are multiple reasons for the success or failure thereof, only some of which are within your control. Statistically it’s more prevalent among the attractive younger crowd (18-23) who have no reason ‘ in their mind ‘ to commit to any guy given how much attention they receive daily.
Conversion Is Part Of A Process This is true of any endeavor and in relationships there’s a natural evolution from initial encounter whatever.Skipping a step rarely happens and skipping two steps is a recipe for disaster.