Most importantly, if the Game is played by understanding social rules, then it helps to know how, when, and why they were programmed.Also recommended: by Robert Cialdini: First of all, a warning: Make sure you get the book with the white cover (subtitled The Psychology of Persuasion), not the red cover (subtitled Science and Practice).by Nathaniel Branden: Despite what they may say, women do not actually look for confidence in a man. I recommend starting with the abridged audio version, then following it by reading the actual book to best internalize the ideas. by Robert Greene: This classic tome collects and analyzes some of history’s greatest seducers and seductions, and provides a great framework for understanding the types of seducers, seducees, and techniques used.Where The Game and pickup artistry tend to focus on walking up to strangers and creating attraction in the least amount of time, the Art of Seduction stretches the timeframe out and explores long-term, often labor-intensive seductions.
So, for you, I’ve noted a few equally essential follow-up books as well.Here are the top books to read to start understanding and internalizing the fundamental principles: 1. And, in fact, the journey many men are on is not just about finding women, but finding unshakeable self-esteem that derives from within (not from the opinions or responses of others)—and this is the book that basically defined the modern idea of self-esteem.