So, there is a good chance you will go out to meet one of them and she won’t look like her picture 🙁 No Bueno! I put together the online profile that we spoke about on the phone on Tuesday. He just finished making his list of what he wants, so here’s what he came up with: Hey Corey, its Tom from San Francisco.its simply a more efficient use of your time to wait for women to respond to your profile first. Its good to be a man 🙂 I coach guys (and girls) to get clear about the type of person they want to attract first, before creating an online dating profile. It allows a woman to read my profile and imagine the possibilities of what we might do. “I like long walks on the beach and candlelit dinners” that’s pretty boring and predictable.I encourage you to watch How To Attract The Perfect Woman. You need to know what you want so you can ask for it in your profile. Otherwise, by not getting clear about what you want is what I call… The Idea is to talk about a lot of different things without being specific as to my life routines.Then, when women read it who like your picture they will say to themselves, “that’s me! Predictable is boring and anti-challenge for women. Thanks, Tom I’m driving my boat and having a great time. When creating an online dating profile, one of the most important things for you to do is to use several good pictures of yourself having fun and smiling. Check it out and tell me what you think and where there is room for improvement. If a woman is intrigued by your profile, she will ask you to tell her more. Don’t Wants: #1-Selfish and self absorbed, #2-Narcissist, #3-Slob, #4-Lazy,#5-Excessive drinking, no smoking, and no drugs, #6-Hypochondriac, #7-Needy,clingy, smothering, #8-Has conflict in all their relationships, family, friends, coworkers, boss, etc, #9-Poor life priorities, doesn’t value whats important, overvalues nonsense, #10-Victim mentality. You will tell a little bit, but not too much about yourself.
I personally have found it to be an inefficient waste of time to write women. When you compare how many high quality matches you get with a good online dating profile that causes women to contact you first, versus writing every woman you find attractive to elicit a response from the ones that like you too… One gorgeous Russian I met thru told me she got over 150 emails in the first 24 hours after her profile went live. So if you want to spend your time emailing the hot ones, you know what you’re up against. I really feel sorry for women trying to navigate the online dating world. using a precision instrument to nail (pun intended) your target. After I first published this article one of my clients emailed this question: If you notice in my profile below, I talk about a lot of general things I like to do.
If the cat’s not curious, she will go find someone else who gives her something to be curious about.