No one gets anywhere by taking the immature route in a fight.A healthy fight should be one that allows for both parties to have their say.Studies have found that fighting isn’t just healthy for couples, but necessary.However, there’s a right way and a wrong way to go about fighting with your partner. Whether it’s over stupid things like who ate the last cookie or big things like money (the number one thing couples fight about), arguing with your partner is just part of being in a relationship.Actually, keeping it all in and avoiding fights is much worse for a couple than the occasional brawl.Who hasn’t wanted to lash out and make personal attacks during a fight?
For example, you don’t want to do it in someone’s home office, because they have the advantage, nor do you want to do it in the car where whoever is driving is able to avoid eye contact.(Also you might crash.) You want to find a place where the playing field is even and eye contact is absolutely part of the equation.